Why would people feel the need to suddenly pretend something about you ... like they pretend that things are better for them than they are, but they use you to do it? That's embarrassingly mean. It's easy enough to have an innocent desire and make the facts stand as exactly what they are and it be okay. If it's not okay, you need to be on the move to figure out why without like promising things you can't keep.
If you want to change reality, you have to realize there are ways to do something that's needed and wanted in the right way.
